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Get Cute Monday













 
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Update


I need a new city. This one has lousy fishing.
fishing with my right hand throwing them back with my left
another one caught another one not good enough
Maybe its me and not the fish
my pole is too long... not long enough
Maybe I'm in the wrong river.
Maybe I need a lake.


Happy day bloggers
I so need a new job I am over the one I have. New plan of action fill out a new application every day until I'm somewhere else. Weight... do we even have to go there... lets not.. really people it's bad, maybe I'll have better news in a week. Found a new workout buddy I think this one is a keeper, we shall see. It is so hard to find someone who will actually workout .. not that I need a partner if I want this I can do it all by myself, but company is nice. Love update... read above... something is just not working for me there bloggers. I just want a honest cute, smart, tall, guy to spend some time with, get to know, get married to, have sex with, and have a baby with that's all ....where is he universe. Life update... sick of school but it is a mission I must complete, I need a new place, a fun-cation and than a vacation, and I need my friends to jump on the not lame, fun train.   *My smile is in place


Same day a little later
New plan II
I need to find a church bloggers. A for real church where people believe in GOD and aren't just there for show. A church where people are living everyday like it's Sunday and not drunk, cussing and partying up until it's time to go to church and than again after the sermon is over. 
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All or Nothing



Dating is hard bloggers, really it is. Recently a friend of mine went out with this dude and she found herself questioning weather or not he was honest. Well at the time I didn't give it much thought because quite frankly I could care less if the dudes I have been dating lately are honest or not. (I haven't liked any of them beyond a few dates) So there was no wondering or asking myself 'Is this dude 4real?' Well I find myself thinking about my friend right now and how she feels about trusting men.
Relationships have not at all been easy or kind to me. I don't think that all men are going to cheat or lie but I do think that it is hard to determine if you are dating a honest guy. Right now I'm asking myself that question. When it comes to relationships and men I have learned to take everything at face value until I am shown otherwise. .. and believe me when I say it doesn't take much for me to see that a guy who looks to be a nice honest guy isn't. Another thing that I have learned bloggers is that sex makes it very difficult to see a lie coming or to recognize a cheater. It is so important to just get to know the person you're dating before even thinking about being intimate with them. It makes it easier to break up with them and so simple to leave when you find out he's not what he claims. I'm not giving advice with this blog I'm just reminding myself why I'm not in nor have been in a sexual relationship in years. It is so very easy to let yourself fall into lust but it's never worth it to give your all only to watch him walk away later.





2nd VERSE

No need for love
Unless it’s Mr. oh, Mr. Right
And only because
Mixin’ lust with love only mean a fight
‘Cuz there’ll be dues to pay
And most of all many sleepless nights
But that won't be today, no
Guess I’ll see ya, love, it’s been nice
Until then...








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Cameron "Cam" Jerrell Newton

I'm not at all a football fan. I could care less about Alabama vs. Auburn and who is going to win BUT hunni Mr. Cam Newton 6'6, 250lbs is so fine that I am willing to cheer for Auburn for the rest of my life





look at that smile...skin... eyes..legs...hunni just look at him and tell me this is not a super sexy guy.
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My kind of man...


I only date men who are...totally...completely into me. I mean he loves the way I look and when I'm in his presence he can't stop looking. Theses are the kind of men that I like to date. Now I will say that I have dated a guy who asked me if I had thought about losing weight...hello dude I'm fat in a skinny world...be real..lol. But even he thought I was one of the most beautiful ladies that he had seen...or so he said lol..and since even after I told him it wasn't going to work he kept calling....very persistent... I take it that he was serious. I like men who enjoy who I am, and of course personality and all that is important but lets be real when he walks up to you personality is not what you see.. You see his appearance and he see yours ...there is nothing else in the 5 to 15min it takes for him to get your number..he saw you, liked the way you looked, walked over ...you saw him said to yourself  "he's cute" and numbers were given.. thats it.  I've dated guys who were into my smile, my eyes, my thighs, my breasts... I mean there was always something about ME that made him say..."Hey." I'm very old school... I'm not the kind of lady whos going to walk up to a man .... no... never that. he has to do the walking ..its 2010 I know but hey thats me.
I have a friend who has no issue with walking up to the guy...and her story may not be yours, but it seems like they are always 1 up on her and are forever taking her for granted ...I mean maybe they see it as knowing she want them and therefore isn't going anywhere ...I don't know but I like to be the one who's 1 up in love.
In a recent conversation with my cousin about my love life I was told that its always good for him to like you more then you like him. That has been the story of my last few relationships ...and to tell you the truth ppl it's not working for me. I just can not stand to be in a relationship with someone whom I have luke-warm feelings about ...it just doesn't work for me. I don't want to marry and spend my life with someone who I only kinda like... someone I learned to love...
I want to meet this man ...confident man... knock him off his feet and at the same time be swept off mine.
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My kind of man...cocky


I like cocky men. Men who walk into every room like they own that room. Nothing else then a confident man for me will do. One of my biggest pet peeves is an insecure man ... I mean hunni if you ain't got it then you betta fake it til you make it. That's really how I feel. I have never dated an insecure man for longer then a second ...well there was that one time... he lasted about two months before I told him it just wasn't working for me. I'm not mean yall. I'm just like many of you ..I know what I want ...and nothing else will do. I have dated men who were cocky about their face, their body... both lol... men who were cocky about their ummm yeah that lol, even men who were cocky about their intellect. The only cocky men I seem to have an issue with are the ones who seem to be a lil bit too much into the amount of money they make or how many cars they have... I always feel as if they see a for sale sign on me somewhere...and sorry hun there's not ...
I was kinda into this lil dude ..ummm not even a year ago...sooo freaking cute ...I mean I know I'm pretty but "is he talking to me" sexy lol.. when I tell you brother man had no confidence ... I mean it was crazy ...
I should mention that I don't mean over the top cocky but ... he just have an air of "I'm the man" surrounding him. oooooh yall that is so my kind of man.