Happy Mothers Dayaaaaawwwwwwhahhaaaa
My aunt is getting on my first and last people...really she is. To be completely honest with yall, this is nothing new ..she always getting on my nerves. I mean it's crazy. I say left, she say right. I say red, she say blue... Did I mention that these are decision about my life? You would think that I'm going on 12 instead of 27..I CAN'T TAKE IT!!!I'm a to my self sort..meaning b4 I talk to anyone about anything I've already figured it out in my mind...am I always right? Of course not BUT I don't need YOU to tell me what YOU 'think' I should freaking do every time I pick up the phone to call you.
Another thing she do that BUGGS the hell out of me... My aunt loves to call me when I'm in stressful situations so that she can talk and talk and freaking talk .. In the beginning I used to tell her that I didn't feel like talking... Guess what bloggers that would offend her ...and all of a sudden I would find myself in either an argument about how I "act" and some other stuff that I wouldn't listen to or I would find myself in a lecture about my behavior or some other mess....
So now bloggers I don't even waste my time.. I just say hello try to say yeah when she ask a question and ummmhuh until she says bye..BUT do that freaking work NO now I'm just "holding the phone" and she "can't tell if I'm on the phone" no winning...none
Now bloggers maybe I should tell you that my aunt and I are very close..we talk a lot ..I even lived with her for a while ..she helps me when I need it, shes encouraging and I respect her.. BUT the lady is killing me. She has known me all my life she should know when I need space... I'm a lil sick of this!!! it always happens when I'm already stressed about 10 other things..and then she calls with all her blah blah blah..I just want to scream "HUSH I DON'T FREAKIN CARE" the funny thing is that I don't say a thing and yet she still get mad at me... 59 minutes until the next hour..lets see what it brings.
Beyonce Hater
About two weeks ago a friend and I had it out about Beyonce. She hates her. No real reason why, she just doesn't’t like the lady. When I asked her why, she gave the same old reason "well she put them other girls out the group" 1. that's been years ago. 2. How do you know what happened?...you don't. Another reason she gave was that she didn't like Beyonce because she fired her dad "Her dad made her, how she just gon fire him?" 1. what business of it is yours? 2. How do you not be angry about your family as you know it ending? So after I said this to her she went on to say that their are better singers then Beyonce. WHAT?!!? Where did that come from? I didn't say anything about homegirls talent but since she took it there I pointed out Beyonce record sales and all her fans worldwide. Her reply " everybody don't like her."
Yall the girl was killing me. 1. You don't have to like someone to admit that they are talented...ex. you don't have to like me to say I'm pretty..lol... 2. How is it that you dislike someone who you don't know?
When do Beyonce say more then two words on camera? Almost never. When she accepts her awards you hear "Thank you" a few people that she thanks and then she’s gone. There are some celebs that allow you to see enough of their personality to say you don't care for them BUT Beyonce is not one of them.
So this is what I think of Beyonce haters... you're jealous...she’s beautiful, rich, talented, and you cant handle it.. GET A FREAKING LIFE!
And I'm talking to everyone out there who can't admit that someone is pretty, funny, cute, smart, fun, just because you "don't like them" Become happy with yourself.
ok bloggers...guess what? I GOT THE FREAKING JOB YaY!!!! so freaking happy about this right now .... awwwwaahhahhhhhwaaaaaaaaaaa thats me screaming in joy
ok yall got a call today (at like 4:30-5:00) from the job...background check came back..and of course its good..after all I'm a good girl. My last interview is tomorrow...wish me luck. **happy dance all over the place..**
Black grandmother
Jill Ciccone Pike
http://www.northcarolinaartists.net/artist_page.php?id=329
I found this pic online and I loved it. It makes me think of all the grandmothers who are out there and have raised their own children but find themselves once again wearing the shoes of parent with their grandchildren. This is very normal in the black community. The view of a family is normally described as: father, mother, children. But this is not what is the normal in the black community. With more and more children being born out of wedlock and more fathers walking away, the view of a black family has changed from days of old.
I don't want it to seem as if I'm picking on black men because I'm not. I personally think that there are many good black men out there..and that there are quite a few bad mothers in our community.
I think the key to this is to teach our children responsibility and to let them know to hold on to their bodies longer. A teenager is not ready to be a parent. I know of young adults who are good parents but most are just not ready for that responsibility.
I should point out that although this blog is directed to the black community, we are not alone in this but we do have the highest numbers in grandmothers becoming mothers again
life
1. no job
2. stupid car..I can't afford to fix..
3. no money
4. you know all this..you're my bestie who I talk to daily
5. you still haven't worn the dress I gave you for mother's day last year
6. Now this is a question for everyone...Is it ok for unsingles to expect or ask for a gift from single friends when since I don't have kids I can't get one from you?... just asking
I would love to be able to buy her a gift but come on bestie you know I have no money...you know how depressed I am about the situation. How can I buy you a needless gift when I can't do something for myself that I need.
WTH!!
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